The Sexual Function of Families
One of the most fundamental functions of the family is to regulate sexual behaviour and reproduction. While this might sound a bit awkward to discuss, it's actually a really important part of how societies organise themselves and ensure their continuation.
Key Definitions:
- Sexual function: The role families play in regulating sexual behaviour, providing a socially approved context for sexual activity and ensuring reproduction.
- Sexual norms: The expectations and rules about what sexual behaviour is considered appropriate in a society.
- Monogamy: The practice of having only one sexual partner or spouse at a time.
- Polygamy: The practice of having multiple spouses at the same time.
👪 Traditional View
Traditionally, families have been seen as the only legitimate place for sexual activity. Marriage was the social institution that gave permission for sexual relationships, with the primary purpose being reproduction. This view is still common in many societies and religious communities today.
🚀 Modern View
In contemporary Western societies, attitudes have shifted significantly. Sexual relationships outside marriage are widely accepted and sex is increasingly seen as separate from reproduction. However, families still play a role in teaching sexual norms and values to children.
How Families Regulate Sexual Behaviour
Throughout history and across different cultures, families have been the main institution for controlling and channelling sexual behaviour. Here's how this works:
Marriage as Sexual Regulation
Marriage has traditionally been the institution that gives social approval for sexual relationships. It creates boundaries around who can have sexual relationships with whom and under what circumstances.
💞 Sexual Exclusivity
Most marriage systems expect sexual exclusivity between partners. This helps create stable family units and clear lines of parentage.
👶 Legitimate Reproduction
Families provide the socially approved context for having and raising children, ensuring they have recognised parents and inheritance rights.
💬 Sexual Socialisation
Families teach children about appropriate sexual behaviour and relationships, passing on cultural values and expectations.
Case Study Focus: Cross-Cultural Variations
While most societies regulate sexual behaviour through families, the specific rules vary enormously:
- Trobriand Islanders: Studied by anthropologist Bronisław Malinowski, these Pacific islanders allowed adolescents considerable sexual freedom before marriage, with special houses built for teenage sexual exploration.
- Saudi Arabia: Maintains strict separation of unmarried men and women, with sexual relationships only permitted within marriage.
- Iceland: Has one of the highest rates of births outside marriage in the world (around 70%), showing how reproduction can be separated from marriage while still occurring within family structures.
Sociological Perspectives on the Sexual Function
Different sociological theories have different views on how and why families regulate sexual behaviour:
📈 Functionalist Perspective
Functionalists like Talcott Parsons argue that regulating sexual behaviour is essential for social stability. By channelling sexual activity into marriage, society ensures:
- Children have clearly identified parents responsible for their care
- Sexual competition is reduced, preventing social conflict
- The reproduction of society continues in an orderly way
For functionalists, the sexual function of families benefits the whole of society.
⚖ Feminist Perspective
Feminist sociologists like Kate Millett argue that traditional sexual regulation within families has primarily benefited men and controlled women. They point to:
- Double standards that judge women's sexual behaviour more harshly than men's
- The historical emphasis on female virginity and fidelity
- How women's sexuality has been tied to reproduction and family roles
Feminists see traditional sexual regulation as part of patriarchal control.
Changes in the Sexual Function of Families
The sexual function of families has changed dramatically in recent decades, particularly in Western societies:
The Separation of Sex, Marriage and Reproduction
One of the biggest changes has been the separation of three things that were traditionally linked:
- Sexual relationships now commonly occur outside marriage
- Contraception has made it possible to have sex without reproduction
- Reproduction can occur through various means (IVF, surrogacy) outside traditional sexual relationships
- Cohabitation has become a normal stage or alternative to marriage
These changes have fundamentally altered how families perform their sexual function, with less emphasis on regulation and more on individual choice.
Case Study: The Sexual Revolution
The 1960s and 1970s saw what sociologists call the 'sexual revolution' - a period of rapid change in sexual attitudes and behaviours:
- The contraceptive pill became widely available, separating sex from reproduction
- Premarital sex became increasingly accepted
- Homosexuality was decriminalised in many countries
- Divorce laws were liberalised, weakening the permanence of marriage
These changes fundamentally altered how families regulate sexual behaviour, with a shift from institutional control to personal choice.
The Sexual Function in Contemporary Society
Today, families still perform a sexual function, but it looks quite different from the past:
📝 What's Changed
- Sex before marriage is widely accepted
- Same-sex relationships and families are legally recognised in many countries
- Reproduction can occur through various technological means
- Diverse family forms (single parents, step-families, same-sex parents) are increasingly common
🚫 What Remains
- Families still socialise children about sexual norms and values
- Most children are still raised within some form of family structure
- Long-term partnerships (married or not) remain the most common context for raising children
- Cultural and religious variations in sexual norms persist
Evaluating the Sexual Function
When studying the sexual function of families, it's important to consider:
- Cultural relativism: Different societies have different norms around sexuality and families - there's no single 'right' way
- Historical context: Sexual norms have changed dramatically over time and continue to evolve
- Power dynamics: Who benefits from particular sexual norms and regulations?
- Individual vs. social needs: How do we balance personal freedom with social stability?
Exam Tip! 💡
When discussing the sexual function of families in your exam:
- Always consider different sociological perspectives (functionalist, feminist, etc.)
- Use specific examples from different cultures or time periods
- Discuss both continuity and change in how families regulate sexual behaviour
- Link the sexual function to other family functions (like reproduction and socialisation)
Summary
The sexual function of families involves regulating sexual behaviour, providing a context for reproduction and teaching sexual norms and values. While traditionally this meant restricting sexual activity to marriage, contemporary Western societies have seen a significant loosening of these restrictions, with sex, marriage and reproduction increasingly separated. However, families continue to play an important role in sexual socialisation and providing a stable environment for raising children.