Introduction to Conjugal Role Relationships
Conjugal role relationships refer to the roles that husbands and wives (or partners) play within a marriage or partnership. These roles determine how household tasks, childcare, decision-making and emotional work are divided between partners. Ann Oakley, a pioneering British sociologist, conducted groundbreaking research in the 1970s that challenged conventional views about family structures and gender roles.
Key Definitions:
- Conjugal roles: The roles performed by partners within a marriage or relationship.
- Conventional family: The traditional nuclear family with a male breadwinner and female homemaker.
- Symmetrical family: A family where roles are more equally shared between partners.
- Asymmetrical family: A family where there is a clear division of roles based on gender.
- Segregated roles: When partners have completely separate and different responsibilities.
- Joint roles: When partners share responsibilities and tasks.
๐ฉโ๐ฌ Ann Oakley's Background
Ann Oakley (born 1944) is a British sociologist, feminist and author. She became famous for her research on housework and gender roles in the 1970s. Her work challenged the idea that women were "naturally" suited to domestic roles. Oakley was one of the first sociologists to study housework seriously as work, rather than dismissing it as something women just "did".
๐ Key Research
Oakley's most influential work includes "The Sociology of Housework" (1974) and "Housewife" (1976). She interviewed 40 London housewives about their experiences of housework, childcare and marriage. This research revealed the monotonous, isolating and low-status nature of housework, challenging the romanticised view of the "happy housewife" that was common at the time.
Oakley on the Conventional Family
Oakley's research in the 1970s provided a critical analysis of the conventional family structure that was dominant in British society. She argued that the conventional family was characterised by a rigid division of labour based on gender, which she found to be neither natural nor beneficial for women.
The Myth of the Natural Housewife
One of Oakley's most significant contributions was challenging the idea that women are naturally suited to domestic roles. Through her research, she demonstrated that:
- Housework is not innately satisfying for women
- Women don't naturally possess special skills for housework
- The housewife role is socially constructed, not biologically determined
- Many women found housework monotonous, isolating and frustrating
Oakley found that 70% of the housewives she interviewed experienced significant dissatisfaction with housework, describing it as monotonous and lacking in social recognition.
๐งน Housework
Oakley found that women spent 77 hours per week on housework. Tasks were repetitive, isolating and never-ending. Unlike paid work, housework had no clear beginning or end, no holidays and no financial reward.
๐ถ Childcare
Women were expected to take primary responsibility for childcare. While many found aspects of motherhood rewarding, the constant demands and lack of support created stress and isolation for many mothers.
๐ผ Work-Life Balance
Men's role was primarily as breadwinners. Even when women worked outside the home, they still performed a "double shift" by taking on most household responsibilities in addition to paid employment.
Asymmetrical Family Roles
Oakley identified that the conventional family was characterised by what sociologists call "asymmetrical roles" - where men and women have distinctly different responsibilities based on gender.
Case Study Focus: The Housewives Study
In her study of 40 London housewives, Oakley found that:
- Only 15% of husbands had high participation in housework
- 25% had medium participation
- 60% had low participation
Even when men did participate in housework, they tended to do specific tasks (like DIY or gardening) rather than routine daily chores like cooking, cleaning and childcare. Men's involvement was often described as "helping" their wives rather than sharing equal responsibility.
The Four Stages of Housework
Oakley identified that housework consists of four main stages that create a never-ending cycle of labour:
๐ The Housework Cycle
- Preparation: Getting ready to do the task (gathering cleaning supplies, etc.)
- Execution: Actually doing the task (cleaning, cooking, etc.)
- Maintenance: Keeping things clean/tidy throughout the day
- Management: Planning and organising household tasks
Oakley argued that this cycle creates a constant burden of physical and mental labour that is largely invisible and unrecognised.
โฐ The Endless Nature of Housework
Unlike paid employment, housework has:
- No fixed working hours
- No holidays or time off
- No retirement age
- No pay or financial recognition
- Low social status
- Tasks that are quickly undone (cleaned rooms get dirty again)
Critiques of the Conventional Family
Based on her research, Oakley developed several key critiques of the conventional family structure:
- Exploitation: Women's unpaid domestic labour subsidises the economy but goes unrecognised
- Inequality: The division of labour creates power imbalances between men and women
- Social construction: Gender roles are learned through socialisation, not natural or biological
- Isolation: The housewife role can lead to social isolation and mental health issues
- Double burden: Working women face the "double shift" of paid work and unpaid housework
Key Quote
"Housework is work directly opposed to self-actualisation."
Ann Oakley
Oakley argued that the repetitive, low-status nature of housework prevents women from developing their full potential as individuals, limiting their opportunities for personal growth and fulfillment.
Impact and Legacy
Oakley's research has had a lasting impact on sociology and our understanding of family life:
๐ Research Impact
Oakley's work was groundbreaking because it:
- Made the invisible work of women visible
- Challenged biological determinism
- Introduced feminist perspectives to family sociology
- Influenced policy debates about childcare and women's employment
- Helped establish housework as a legitimate area of sociological study
๐ Changes Since Oakley's Research
Since the 1970s, family life has changed in several ways:
- More women in paid employment
- Greater expectations for men to participate in housework and childcare
- More diverse family forms beyond the conventional nuclear family
- Increased availability of childcare services
- Changing attitudes towards gender roles
However, research shows that women still perform more housework and childcare than men in most households.
Evaluating Oakley's Work
While Oakley's research was revolutionary, it's important to critically evaluate her work:
๐ Strengths
- Gave voice to women's experiences that had been ignored
- Used rigorous qualitative research methods
- Challenged prevailing assumptions about family life
- Highlighted structural inequalities rather than individual choices
- Influenced later research and policy
๐ Limitations
- Small sample size (40 women)
- London-based sample may not represent all experiences
- Research is now several decades old
- Focused primarily on white, middle-class experiences
- Some argue it undervalues the positive aspects of family life
Conclusion
Ann Oakley's research on the conventional family provided a powerful critique of gender roles and domestic labour in the 1970s. By highlighting the unequal division of household responsibilities and challenging the idea that women are naturally suited to domestic roles, she made a significant contribution to our understanding of family life and gender inequality.
While family structures and attitudes have evolved since Oakley conducted her research, many of her insights remain relevant today. Women still perform more housework and childcare than men in most households and the unpaid labour that sustains family life continues to be undervalued. Oakley's work reminds us that family arrangements are socially constructed rather than natural or inevitable and that they can be changed to create more equal and fulfilling relationships.