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Unlock This CourseRelationships between teenagers and adults within families have changed dramatically over the past century. These changes reflect broader shifts in society, technology and cultural values. Understanding these relationships helps us see how family structures evolve over time.
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Traditionally, family relationships were based on clear hierarchies where adults (particularly fathers) held authority and teenagers were expected to obey without question. Children were often seen as 'economic assets' who contributed to family income. The concept of 'adolescence' as we understand it today barely existed before the 20th century, with young people moving directly from childhood to adult responsibilities.
Today's teenager-adult relationships are typically more democratic and negotiated. Young people have more rights, freedoms and extended education. The 'youth culture' that emerged in the 1950s and 1960s created distinct teenage identities separate from adult society. Digital technology has further transformed these relationships, sometimes creating new tensions but also new ways of connecting.
One of the most significant changes affecting teenager-adult relationships is the extension of education and youth dependency.
In the early 20th century, most young people left school at 14 and began working, contributing to family income. They often moved quickly into adult roles.
Education now typically continues to 18 and beyond. Many young people remain financially dependent on parents into their 20s, creating an extended adolescence.
This creates a longer period where teenagers have adult-like freedoms but remain dependent, potentially causing tension in family relationships.
Digital technology has radically transformed how teenagers and adults interact within families.
Today's teenagers are 'digital natives' who have grown up with technology that many parents may struggle to understand fully. This can create a 'digital generation gap' where teenagers may have more expertise than adults in certain areas. Research shows that:
Social media platforms that parents may not understand can create private teenage spaces beyond adult supervision, challenging traditional authority patterns.
Sociologists Sue Heath and Elizabeth Cleaver studied how teenagers' bedrooms have become private spaces equipped with technology (TVs, computers, smartphones) that allow them to participate in youth culture while physically remaining in the family home. This 'bedroom culture' represents a compromise between parental supervision and teenage independence. Teenagers can maintain family connections while developing separate identities, creating a new type of relationship where they are simultaneously connected to and separate from adult family members.
The shift from authoritarian to more democratic family relationships represents one of the most significant changes in teenager-adult dynamics.
In the past, parent-teen relationships were often based on 'positional authority' - adults were obeyed simply because of their position as parents. Sociologist Basil Bernstein described this as families with 'strong boundaries' where rules were explicit and non-negotiable. Teenagers were expected to follow adult rules without question and physical discipline was more common and accepted.
Modern families typically show 'weaker boundaries' with more negotiation and explanation. Authority is increasingly based on persuasion rather than command. Sociologists call this 'personal authority' - where adults must justify rules and teenagers expect to have input into decisions affecting them. This shift reflects broader democratic values in society and recognition of children's rights.
It's important to recognise that teenager-adult relationships vary significantly across different cultural contexts:
Sociologists have identified a growing trend of 'kidults' or 'boomerang children' - young adults who return to live with parents after university or initial independence. In the UK, over 25% of young adults aged 20-34 now live with parents, compared to just 10% in 1997. This creates new types of adult-adult relationships within families, where both generations must negotiate new boundaries. Economic factors (housing costs, student debt, precarious employment) are major drivers of this trend, showing how broader social changes affect family relationships.
Functionalists see the family as crucial for socialising teenagers into society's norms. They believe some tension between generations is normal and functional as teenagers develop independence. However, they worry that too much breakdown in authority could undermine social stability.
Marxists argue that capitalist society creates tensions in families as teenagers are caught between education systems preparing them for work and consumer culture encouraging spending. They see youth rebellion as partly resistance to capitalist values.
Feminists highlight how gender affects teenager-adult relationships. They note that daughters often face different (usually stricter) rules than sons and that mothers typically take on more responsibility for managing teenage behaviour and emotions.
When studying teenager-adult relationships, it's important to consider:
When answering questions about teenager-adult relationships, always consider different perspectives and avoid sweeping generalisations. Use specific examples and evidence to support your points. Remember to consider how factors like class, ethnicity, gender and religion might create different experiences for different families.