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Changing Relationships Within Families ยป Contemporary Family Changes

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Study time: 30 minutes

  • The key changes in contemporary family structures
  • Reasons for the rise in divorce rates and its impact
  • Changes in marriage patterns and cohabitation
  • The growth of reconstituted families
  • How family roles have evolved in modern society
  • The impact of technology on family relationships

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Contemporary Family Changes

Families in the UK and around the world have undergone massive changes in the last few decades. The traditional nuclear family is no longer the only accepted family form and many different family structures now exist side by side in modern society.

Key Definitions:

  • Nuclear family: A family consisting of two parents and their children.
  • Extended family: A family that includes relatives beyond parents and children, such as grandparents, aunts and uncles.
  • Lone-parent family: A family where children live with only one parent.
  • Reconstituted family: A family formed when parents with children from previous relationships form a new partnership (also called blended or step-families).
  • Cohabitation: Couples living together without being married.

👪 Changing Family Structures

The traditional nuclear family has declined in the UK. In 1971, 52% of households were nuclear families, but by 2019, this had fallen to just 28%. Meanwhile, lone-parent families have increased from 8% in 1971 to around 15% today and people living alone now make up about 30% of all households.

📆 Historical Context

These changes began accelerating in the 1960s and 1970s with the introduction of more liberal divorce laws, the women's movement and changing attitudes towards marriage. The 1969 Divorce Reform Act made it easier to get divorced, while the contraceptive pill gave women more control over reproduction.

The Rise in Divorce

One of the most significant changes in family life has been the increase in divorce rates, though they have stabilised and even fallen slightly in recent years.

Why Have Divorce Rates Increased?

Several factors have contributed to higher divorce rates since the 1970s:

📜 Legal Changes

The 1969 Divorce Reform Act and 1984 Matrimonial and Family Proceedings Act made divorce easier and cheaper to obtain. The introduction of no-fault divorce in 2022 has further simplified the process.

👩 Women's Independence

Women's increased economic independence means they're less financially dependent on husbands and more able to leave unhappy marriages. More women in the workforce have their own income and pension rights.

🗣 Changing Attitudes

There's less stigma attached to divorce today. Society has become more accepting of relationship breakdown and the idea of staying together 'for the children' is less common.

Case Study Focus: Divorce Statistics

In 1970, there were about 60,000 divorces in England and Wales. This peaked at over 165,000 in 1993 and has since declined to around 100,000 per year. Interestingly, divorce rates are now highest among people aged 45-49, showing that the 'silver splitter' phenomenon (older couples divorcing) is becoming more common.

Changes in Marriage and Cohabitation

Marriage rates have declined significantly while cohabitation has increased dramatically.

💍 Declining Marriage

Marriage rates in the UK have halved since 1972. People are marrying later (average age is now 31 for women and 33 for men, up from 22 and 24 in 1970) or not at all. Same-sex marriage was legalised in 2014, reflecting changing social attitudes.

🏠 Rising Cohabitation

Cohabitation has increased dramatically. In the 1960s, only about 5% of couples lived together before marriage. Now, over 80% of couples live together before getting married and many never marry at all. About 1 in 5 couples in the UK are cohabiting rather than married.

The Growth of Reconstituted Families

With higher divorce rates and relationship breakdowns, reconstituted or 'blended' families have become increasingly common.

Around 10% of families with dependent children in the UK are now step-families. These families create complex kinship networks where children may have multiple sets of grandparents, step-siblings and half-siblings.

Challenges for Reconstituted Families

Step-families often face unique challenges:

  • Complex relationships - Children may have to adapt to new step-parents and step-siblings
  • Loyalty conflicts - Children might feel torn between biological parents
  • Different parenting styles - Step-parents and biological parents may have different approaches
  • Financial pressures - Supporting children across multiple households can be financially challenging

Changing Family Roles

Traditional gender roles within families have undergone significant transformation.

👩‍💼 Women's Roles

Women's participation in the workforce has dramatically increased. In 1971, only 53% of women aged 16-64 were in paid work, compared to over 72% today. This has changed the traditional 'housewife' role, with women increasingly pursuing careers.

👨‍🦸 Men's Roles

Men are increasingly involved in childcare and housework, though women still do the majority of domestic labour. The number of stay-at-home dads has doubled since the 1990s, though they still represent a small minority.

👶 Childhood

Children's experiences have changed too. They typically have fewer siblings, spend more time in formal childcare and often have relationships with multiple parental figures due to family breakdown and reformation.

Case Study Focus: The Symmetrical Family

Sociologists Young and Willmott (1973) suggested that families were becoming more 'symmetrical' - with men and women sharing roles more equally. While complete equality hasn't been achieved, there has been a significant shift towards more shared parenting and domestic responsibilities. Recent studies show that during the COVID-19 pandemic, many fathers spent more time with their children, potentially accelerating this trend.

Technology and Family Life

Modern technology has transformed how families interact and maintain relationships.

Digital Family Life

Technology has created both opportunities and challenges for contemporary families:

  • Keeping connected - Video calls and messaging apps help families stay in touch across distances
  • Beanpole families - Technology helps maintain relationships in 'beanpole families' (fewer children but more living generations)
  • Digital divide - Family members may spend less time interacting face-to-face as they use individual devices
  • New parenting challenges - Parents now need to manage children's screen time and online safety

Sociological Perspectives on Family Change

📖 Functionalist View

Functionalists like Parsons might see these changes as potentially damaging to society, as the traditional nuclear family performed important functions like socialisation and emotional support. However, modern functionalists recognise that different family forms can still perform these functions.

Feminist View

Feminists generally view changes like women's increased independence and more equal relationships as positive developments. However, they point out that women still do most childcare and housework, even when working full-time - what Arlie Hochschild called the 'second shift'.

Conclusion: Family Diversity

The key theme emerging from all these changes is increased family diversity. The UK now has a wide range of family forms coexisting, with no single 'normal' family type. This diversity reflects broader social changes including secularisation, individualisation and changing gender roles.

While some sociologists worry about family breakdown, others celebrate the increased freedom people have to form families that suit their circumstances. What's clear is that families continue to be important to people, even as their forms and functions evolve.

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