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What are the different types of families? » Types of marriage - arranged marriage
What you'll learn this session
Study time: 30 minutes
- The definition and characteristics of arranged marriages
- Different types of arranged marriages (traditional, modern, forced)
- Cultural contexts where arranged marriages are common
- Sociological perspectives on arranged marriages
- The difference between arranged and forced marriages
- Contemporary trends in arranged marriages
Introduction to Arranged Marriages
Arranged marriages are a type of marriage where families, particularly parents, play a significant role in selecting spouses for their children. Unlike love marriages where individuals choose their own partners based primarily on romantic attraction, arranged marriages involve family members identifying suitable matches based on various social, economic, religious and cultural factors.
Key Definitions:
- Arranged Marriage: A marriage where the bride and groom are selected by individuals other than the couple themselves, typically by family members.
- Forced Marriage: A marriage in which one or both spouses do not consent to the marriage and where pressure or abuse is used.
- Endogamy: The practice of marrying within a specific social group, caste, or ethnic group.
- Exogamy: The practice of marrying outside one's social group.
★ Traditional vs Modern Arranged Marriages
Traditional Arranged Marriages: Minimal or no contact between potential spouses before marriage, decisions made primarily by parents or elders, often based on family reputation, caste, religion and economic status.
Modern Arranged Marriages: Potential spouses have the right to accept or reject matches, may meet and get to know each other before deciding and families act more as matchmakers than decision-makers.
✍ Key Characteristics
Arranged marriages typically involve:
- Family involvement in spouse selection
- Consideration of compatibility factors beyond romantic attraction
- Focus on family alliances rather than just individual preferences
- Emphasis on practical aspects of marriage (financial stability, similar backgrounds)
- Often connected to cultural and religious traditions
Types of Arranged Marriages
Arranged marriages exist on a spectrum and can take different forms depending on the level of choice given to the individuals involved:
📆 Traditional
Parents or family elders make all decisions. The couple may not meet before the wedding day or may have limited supervised meetings. Common in more conservative societies and historical contexts.
📄 Semi-arranged
Parents identify potential matches, but the couple has the right to accept or reject. They may be allowed to meet and interact before making a decision. This is increasingly common in many societies.
📅 Modern Arranged
Also called "assisted marriages" where families introduce potential matches but the couple makes the final decision after dating and getting to know each other. Popular among diaspora communities.
Cultural Contexts of Arranged Marriages
Arranged marriages are practised in various cultures around the world, though the specific customs and expectations vary significantly:
Regional Practices
While arranged marriages exist globally, they are particularly common in certain regions:
🇮 South Asian Context
In countries like India, Pakistan, Bangladesh and Sri Lanka, arranged marriages remain common across various religious groups. Considerations often include caste, religion, education level, profession and family background. Modern arranged marriages in these contexts increasingly involve the consent of both parties.
🌍 Other Cultural Contexts
Middle East: Family-arranged marriages are common in many Arab countries, often within extended family networks.
East Asia: Countries like Japan have "omiai" (formal matchmaking), while China has traditional matchmakers.
Jewish communities: Some Orthodox Jewish communities practice "shidduch" (matchmaking).
Case Study Focus: British Asian Communities
In the UK, arranged marriages are most common among British Asian communities. Research shows a generational shift in how these marriages are approached:
- First-generation immigrants often maintained traditional arranged marriage practices
- Second and third generations typically have more agency in the process
- Many young British Asians now describe their marriages as "introduced" rather than "arranged"
- Parents may introduce potential partners, but children have veto power and the right to refuse
- Online matrimonial websites have become popular tools for modern arranged marriages
This demonstrates how cultural practices adapt to new social contexts while maintaining certain traditional elements.
Sociological Perspectives on Arranged Marriages
Different sociological perspectives offer varying interpretations of arranged marriages:
🔬 Functionalist Perspective
Functionalists might argue that arranged marriages:
- Promote social stability by ensuring marriages within similar social groups
- Strengthen extended family bonds and social networks
- Preserve cultural traditions and values
- Potentially reduce divorce rates through careful matching of compatible partners
💬 Feminist Perspective
Feminist sociologists might critique arranged marriages for:
- Potentially reinforcing patriarchal control over women's lives
- Limiting individual autonomy, especially for women
- Treating women as assets to be exchanged between families
- However, they might also recognise that some women actively choose and value arranged marriages
Arranged vs Forced Marriages
It's crucial to distinguish between arranged marriages and forced marriages:
✅ Arranged Marriage
Key features:
- Both parties consent to the marriage
- Individuals have the right to refuse a match
- Family members act as facilitators rather than enforcers
- Legal in most countries, including the UK
❌ Forced Marriage
Key features:
- One or both parties do not consent
- May involve emotional pressure, threats, or physical force
- Illegal in the UK since the Forced Marriage (Civil Protection) Act 2007
- Recognised as a form of domestic abuse and human rights violation
UK Policy on Forced Marriage
In the UK, forced marriage is a criminal offence:
- The Forced Marriage Unit (FMU) was established in 2005 to tackle forced marriages
- In 2014, forcing someone to marry became a criminal offence with a maximum penalty of 7 years imprisonment
- The FMU handles approximately 1,200-1,400 cases per year
- Schools and social services are trained to identify potential forced marriage situations
This demonstrates how the UK distinguishes between acceptable arranged marriages (based on consent) and unacceptable forced marriages (lacking consent).
Contemporary Trends in Arranged Marriages
Arranged marriages are evolving in response to changing social attitudes and technologies:
Modern Adaptations
Today's arranged marriages often blend traditional and modern approaches:
- Digital matchmaking: Matrimonial websites and apps have partly replaced traditional matchmakers
- Greater individual choice: Young people have more say in the selection process
- "Assisted marriages": Parents provide introductions but children make the final decision
- Longer courtship periods: Couples often date before committing to marriage
- Focus on compatibility: Education, career and personal values increasingly important
These changes reflect broader social shifts including increased education, urbanisation and changing gender roles, while still maintaining the core value of family involvement in marriage decisions.
Evaluating Arranged Marriages
When studying arranged marriages sociologically, it's important to consider both potential advantages and criticisms:
👍 Potential Advantages
- Family support network for the couple
- Practical compatibility considerations beyond romantic attraction
- Lower divorce rates in some contexts (though this is debated)
- Preservation of cultural traditions and community bonds
- Protection from isolation in collectivist societies
👎 Potential Criticisms
- May limit individual autonomy and choice
- Risk of prioritising family interests over individual happiness
- Potential reinforcement of social stratification (caste, class)
- Risk of pressure becoming coercion in some cases
- May perpetuate traditional gender roles and expectations
Summary
Arranged marriages represent a diverse set of practices that vary significantly across cultures and have evolved over time. While traditional arranged marriages gave families almost complete control over spouse selection, modern arranged marriages typically balance family involvement with individual choice. The key distinction between arranged and forced marriages is consent - arranged marriages involve the willing participation of both parties, while forced marriages do not.
From a sociological perspective, arranged marriages can be analysed through various theoretical lenses, including functionalism, feminism and cultural relativism. As societies change, arranged marriage practices continue to adapt, often incorporating modern technologies and values while maintaining the core principle of family involvement in one of life's most important decisions.
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